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		<title>I&#8217;m Talkin&#8217; iPad!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 12:46:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Imagine, if you will, opening e-mail attachments, visiting the Internet, shopping online, digital photos, video calling, social networking, watching a movie or TV, playing games, listening to music, reading a book, and more…all rolled up in one appealing and extremely portable  device that measures 9.5” by just under 7.5” and weighs less than a pound a half. It’s a bird! It’s a plane! No, it’s Apple’s iPad!<p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine, if you will, opening e-mail attachments, visiting the Internet, shopping online, digital photos, video calling, social networking, watching a movie or TV, playing games, listening to music, reading a book, and more…all rolled up in one appealing and extremely portable device that measures 9.5” by just under 7.5” and weighs less than a pound a half. It’s a bird! It’s a plane! No, it’s Apple’s iPad!
<p>To be fair, there is an entire industry of tablets out there worthy of your attention. Blackberry has their Playbook tablet, the Kindle and Nook are evolving more into a tablet with each generation. Asus, Samsung, and Lenovo also offer tablets with very good reviews at competitive prices, but the iPad was the pioneer and remains the dominant player in the field. Not to mention, I own an iPad and am in love with it.
<p><a href="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/iPad-image1.jpg"><img src="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/iPad-image1-300x147.jpg" alt="" title="iPad image" width="300" height="147" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-670" /></a></p>
<p>The iPad functions like a big iPhone . There are over 90,000 apps (applications or programs) specific to the iPad and several iPhone apps worked in a modified way on the iPad. You are sure to find a few dozen programs out of 90,000+ that will truly amaze and entertain you. Of course you can use Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and even video Skype on the iPad. The screen size makes watching a movie or TV show or reading a book or magazine a pleasure. (All of which can be purchased from iTunes.) The glass screen makes any images come alive with clarity. Because I use my iPad for heavy duty e-mailing and writing I set it into an external keyboard rather than having to type on the touch screen. (My bad typing needs all the help it can get!) Just like some smartphones, the iPad can be held horizontally or vertically depending on the mood you’re in for viewing. You really have to see and touch it to believe all that it is capable of.
<p>By the way, you have a choice when buying an iPad whether you want only the wifi feature or, for a monthly data usage fee, you can have 3G or 4G to stay connected to the Internet 24/7. Every weekend I train from New York City to Connecticut. There is no wifi on the train, so I opted to pay the small monthly fee to stay connected during my weekend commute.
<p>I could just go on and on describing my enjoyment with the iPad, but rather than my talking about it and until you get one in your hands the best thing you could do is visit <a href="apple.com/ipad/guided-tours/">apple.com/ipad/guided-tours/</a> to see it all first-hand. Be sure to click Play All Guided Tours.
<p>Good, now I can get back to playing with my favorite toy…you guessed it &#8211; my iPad.<br />
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		<title>NYU Journalism Student Writes About Me and the Digital Divide</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 14:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[An immense digital divide exists between those born into today’s technology generation and those who did not grow up using a computer, but Abby Stokes believes that anyone can learn to use a computer, no matter what age. “I refer to anyone over the age of 40 as a digital immigrant and anyone under 40 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An immense digital divide exists between those born into today’s technology generation and those who did not grow up using a computer, but Abby Stokes believes that anyone can learn to use a computer, no matter what age.</p>
<p>“I refer to anyone over the age of 40 as a digital immigrant and anyone under 40 a digital native,” says Abby Stokes, a professional actor, turned teacher, turned author. “Any immigrant, even if the food is good, is never home in a country that is not theirs.” This is one of the principle tenets Stokes uses to “demystify” computers, a process developed through the inspiration of her own mother and presented in her book <em>Is This Thing On: A Handbook for Latebloomers, Technophobes, and the Kicking &#038; Screaming</em>. Her patient approach of teaching details has allowed her to help over 135,000 individuals, throughout seventeen years, most of them senior citizens, to make the move and become connected in this digital age.</P></p>
<p>The Pew Research Center’s “Generations 2010” report, by Kathryn Zickuhr, measures Internet use among six different groups and the impact on American life. Statistics show that 58 percent of the Silent Generation (ages 65-73) use the Internet and account for 5 percent of the total online population. 30 percent of individuals in the G.I. Generation (age 74+) use the Internet, which accounts for 3 percent of the total online population. While a lack of money and resources contribute to this dearth of seniors online, one fact remains certain—learning to operate some of today’s technology can be a source of great frustration, even for the most plugged-in people.</P></p>
<p>“It’s exasperating,” said Marion Matthews, a New Yorker who has tried many different approaches to learning e-mail and the Internet. “I’ve learned how to use a computer through different ways and people over time but e-mail is so difficult.”</P></p>
<p>It may be a failure of design or a fault in one’s own internal wiring, but those who have not grown up using computer technology simply have a difficulty understanding it. That is where Abby Stokes steps in.</P></p>
<p><P>“I think of a computer as a car,” says Stokes, in a presentation at the New York Public Library’s Senior Jamboree, held on May 5th at the 23rd Street Epiphany Library branch, “I can drive a car, but I don’t need to know how it works to operate it.”</P> </p>
<p><P>A December 2009 Nielsen study reported that from 2004, the number of seniors using the Internet increased more than 55 percent, from 11.3 million users in November 2004 to 17.5 million in November 2009, and the numbers continue to grow. The New York Public Library has increased these statistics through programming.</P></p>
<p><P>“We have about 90 branches and we’ll send Abby to ten different ones to give her presentation, and they love it,” says Brigid Cahalan, a Librarian for the New York Public Library who schedules Abby at events in various NYPL locations around the city. “Abby makes them realize that they can do it.”</P></p>
<p><P>Programming at the New York Public Library has proven effective and inspirational to many who want to learn but can’t afford expensive or complicated methods.</P></p>
<p><P>“We’ve had people coming in all day since we started at 10:30, like ‘When is the computer presentation? When is she coming? I saw her at Kips Bay, I saw her at Morningside Heights,” says Epiphany Library head librarian Elissa Kling, who organized the Jamboree on May 5th.</P></p>
<p>Stokes also works with Older Adults Technology Services, OATS, a non-profit organization that sees technology as a way to improve the lives of older adults.</P> </p>
<p>“It can be very difficult for an older person, who is supposed to be older and wiser, to cope with the feeling of not knowing how to use technology or to feel like they are being left out,” says Renee Coronado Martinez, Director of Digital Communities for OATS, who has worked closely with Stokes to teach computers to seniors in the New York area. “Technology is so youth focused, but the more older adults are online and involved in discussions, the more our society sees them, understands them and values them.”</P></p>
<p>The average computer-user does not realize that the smallest function, like using a mouse or typing on a keyboard, is difficult for a digital immigrant. Stokes understands this and explains every step, from turning on the computer, to ultimately learning how to visit her website. Shirley Farnsworth, at seventy-eight years old, has seen her computer skills evolve.</P></p>
<p>“I was given a computer by my kids, but I had no idea how it operated at all. The classes they give in the library are lousy. They assume you know something,” she says. “I didn’t know anything. I didn’t know when they said touch the mouse there’s the left side and the right side.”</P></p>
<p>For Farnsworth, like many seniors, learning to use a computer and the Internet opened the door to new opportunities. Born into a family of actors, and once a singer herself, Farnsworth found a way to satisfy her artistic desires through the computer after her singing voice was destroyed from a colon operation gone awry.</P></p>
<p>“I found a woman in a forum who produced free graphics. [The graphics] helped me create images and put them together to make cards, and I’m sort of noted for it,” she said. “It’s been a joyous thing, and becoming more disabled all the time it really helps me.”</P></p>
<p>Many seniors want to learn but just haven’t found the correct method to truly understand that they are in fact capable of learning to use a computer.</P></p>
<p>“I bought a couple of Windows 7 books for seniors but they really didn&#8217;t seem to help me very much so I didn&#8217;t seem to make much progress after my initial start.,” said Larry Ainslee, whose wife found Stokes’ book after a serious of discouraging attempts to learn to use a computer.</P.></p>
<p>Abby Stokes, despite no formal training or instruction, made a business out of helping people realize that they can do what she does.</P> </p>
<p><P>“I didn’t go to college, I didn’t take a class on computers,” she says, surprised at her own accomplishments, “If an offer comes your way, the answer should be yes. I can’t fly a plane but I could probably <em>learn</em> how to fly a plane.”</p>
<p>- Elan H. Bird</P></p>
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		<title>April Library Talks Bring May Flowers&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Mar 2011 05:22:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ll be visiting 10 New York Public Library sites in the month of April offering a reassuring, jargon-free, and totally straightforward nuts-and-bolts presentation that will introduce late bloomers, grandparents, technophobes, and the digitally challenged to all the wonders of using a computer. If you know of anyone who needs some computer demystification, send them my [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll be visiting 10 New York Public Library sites in the month of April offering a reassuring, jargon-free, and totally straightforward nuts-and-bolts presentation that will introduce late bloomers, grandparents, technophobes, and the digitally challenged to all the wonders of using a computer. If you know of anyone who needs some computer demystification, send them my way.</p>
<p>April 20, 2011 – 2:00-4:00PM at Kip’s Bay Library, 446 Third Avenue, Manhattan, NY. 212-683-2520.</p>
<p>April 20, 2011 – 10:30am-12:30PM at Morningside Heights Library, 2900 Broadway, Manhattan, NY. 212-864-2530.</P></p>
<p>April 18, 2011 – 2:00-4:00PM at Webster Library, 1465 York Avenue, Manhattan, NY. 212-288-5049.</P></p>
<p>April 18, 2011 – 11:15am-1:15PM at 67th Street Library, 328 East 67th Street, Manhattan, NY. 212-734-1717.</P></p>
<p>April 15, 2011 – 1:00-3:00PM at Morris Park Library, 985 Morris Park Avenue, Bronx, NY. 718-931-0636.</P></p>
<p>April 14, 2011 – 11:00am-1:00PM at Mosholu Library, 285 East 205th Street, Bronx, NY. 718-882-8239.</P></p>
<p>April 13, 2011 – 3:00-5:00PM at Great Kills Library, 56 Giffords Lane, Staten Island, NY. 718-984-6670.</P></p>
<p>April 13, 2011 – 11:00am-1:00PM at Tottenville Library, 7430 Amboy Road, Staten Island, NY. 718-984-0945.</p>
<p>April 11, 2011 – 2:00-4:00PM at Parkchester Library, 1985 Westchester Avenue, Bronx, NY. 718-829-7830.</P></p>
<p>April 11, 2011 – 10:30am-12:30PM at Throg’s Neck Library, 3025 Cross Bronx Expressway, Bronx, NY. 718-792-2612.</P></p>
<p>It would be lovely to see you there too. Happy Spring, everyone!</p>
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		<title>Special Series of Talks @ New York Public Library March 21st and 23rd</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Mar 2011 02:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Abby</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ll be presenting a mini-series of four lectures on computer-related topics at the centrally-located Mid-Manhattan Library March 21st and 23rd. The first session, for the absolute beginner, will answer the questions: Why would I use a computer? What good would it do? How I can keep my identity &#8211; and my bank accounts &#8211; safe [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll be presenting a mini-series of four lectures on computer-related topics at the centrally-located Mid-Manhattan Library March 21st and 23rd.</p>
<p>The first session, for the absolute beginner, will answer the questions: <em>Why would I use a computer? What good would it do? How I can keep my identity &#8211; and my bank accounts &#8211; safe while online? What, how and why Google, Blogs and Facebook? </em></p>
<p>The first presentation in the series will be simultaneously translated into Spanish. It is described below for any Spanish speakers.</p>
<p><strong>Desmitificar la computadora/Demystifying Computers &#8211; Monday, March 21, 2011, 10:30am-12:30PM</strong></p>
<p>Abby Stokes, escritora y profesora de computación, aclarará los mitos de la computadora para principiantes, especialmente aquellos que nunca hayan tocado una.  Ella responderá a preguntas tales como:</p>
<p>¿Por qué querría yo usar una computadora?  ¿De qué me serviría? ¿Cómo puedo mantener mi identidad&#8211; y mis cuentas bancarias&#8211; seguras, estando en línea?  ¿El qué, cómo y por qué de Google, Blogs y Facebook?</p>
<p>Encuentre la respuesta a estas preguntas y mucho más en esta presentación gratuita.</p>
<p>Presentación simultaneamente traducida al español.</p>
<p>Ubicación: Primer piso, Salón de programas.</p>
<p><strong>What Can I Do Besides Send E-Mail? &#8211; Monday, March 21, 2011, 2:30-4:30PM</strong></p>
<p>In my second lecture, we will go &#8220;beyond the basics&#8221; of computer demystifying and will discuss e-mail attachments, netiquette, and how to get&#8211;and stay&#8211;organized online.</p>
<p><strong>How to Safely Surf the Internet and Find (Almost) Anything &#8211; Wednesday, March 23, 2011, 10:30 am-12:30PM</strong></p>
<p>This lecture will cover how to get the most out of your searches online; safety, shopping and banking; and I&#8217;ll recommend websites for travel, health, finance, and more.</p>
<p><strong>Social Networking&#8211;What the Heck are Facebook, Twitter, and Blogging??? &#8211; Wednesday, March 23, 2011, 2:30-4:30PM</strong></p>
<p>This, the final lecture, will explain what everyone&#8217;s talking about when they bring up Facebook, Twitter, and blogs. I&#8217;ll also share how you can enjoy the benefits of social media without risking the loss of your privacy.</p>
<p>These programs will take place in the first floor program room at 455 Fifth Avenue between 39th and 40th Streets.</p>
<p>I hope to see you there or that you&#8217;ll pass the word onto anyone who might be interested.</p>
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		<title>Mac vs PC &#8211; How Do You Decide?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2011 18:26:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m regularly asked &#8220;Should I buy a Mac or a PC?&#8221; It&#8217;s a battle not unlike the Hatfields vs the McCoys. For those of you that don&#8217;t know the difference, a Mac/Apple (the name is interchangeable) is one manufacturer of both laptop and desktop computers. The inside (operating system or the brain) and the outside [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m regularly asked &#8220;Should I buy a Mac or a PC?&#8221; It&#8217;s a battle not unlike the Hatfields vs the McCoys. For those of you that don&#8217;t know the difference, a Mac/Apple (the name is interchangeable) is one manufacturer of both laptop and desktop computers. The inside (operating system or the brain) and the outside (hardware or what you touch) are both designed by Apple. A PC is every other manufacturer of the outside of a laptop or desktop computer (IBM, Sony, Dell, etc.) with the inside manufactured by Microsoft.</p>
<p>The answer to the question &#8220;Should I buy a Mac or a PC?&#8221; is a question: &#8220;Who will you call for help on Sunday afternoon when something goes wrong with your computer?&#8221; Your computer lifeline needs to understand the kind of computer that you have. So, if your computer lifeline is your neighbor, your daughter, or your friend next door purchase a PC or Mac according to what they use. You don&#8217;t need to buy the exact model they have, but you&#8217;ll want to buy a computer that they understand and can help you with.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s call a spade a spade. I&#8217;ve been teaching computers for 17 years and I can say with complete confidence that NO COMPUTER is &#8220;user-friendly.&#8221; That is just damn good marketing. That doesn&#8217;t mean you can&#8217;t learn to use a computer, whether it is a PC or a Mac, but there&#8217;s very little about any computer that is intuitive or friendly. Once you understand some of the techniques necessary to operate it, the computer becomes more intuitive in the same way that driving a car becomes intuitive, but it isn&#8217;t any thanks to some of the design choices. Who was the genius that put the Caps Lock key so close to the Shift key? What is the logic of clicking Start to turn off the computer? I could go on&#8230; The upside is, like a car, the computer can bring you to wonderful places making it worth the effort to learn how to operate it. And, like a car, you don&#8217;t need to understand the nitty and gritty of how it works in order to work it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s true that a Mac is less vulnerable to viruses. That is a definite plus. And it can be argued that the inside of a Mac may have been or still is better, lusher, or more advanced than a PC, but you and I won&#8217;t ever notice the difference. If you&#8217;re a graphic designer, a Mac is probably a better idea. For us, the average user, both a Mac and a PC will equally meet our needs with e-mail, word-processing, and the Internet. If you&#8217;re comfortable with whichever kind of computer you already have, there&#8217;s no reason to succumb to pressure because someone you know LOVES their Mac or PC. Will they be there to help you when with a computer question or problem?</p>
<p>If you decide to change from PC to Mac or vice versa, you can make the transition with same patience required with a new spouse. They&#8217;ll be good days and bad days and eventually you&#8217;ll hit a comfort level with all the changes. A different operating systems does require that you purchase all new software which can be pricey. Research the cost of whatever software you have on your existing computer before you make the change.</p>
<p>No matter the pressure or hard sell that comes your way, your computer choice is YOURS to make. Hold fast to what suits your needs, wallet, and comfort level. Tell them I said so!</p>
<p><i>For more on Mac vs PC visit Chapter 6 (p. 47) in <b>&#8220;Is This Thing On?&#8221;</b></i></p>
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		<title>Geez G-mail</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Jan 2011 12:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
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When I'm asked what free web-based e-mail I recommend it is <strong>NOT </strong><a title="Gmail.com" href="https://www.google.com/accounts/ServiceLogin?service=mail&#38;passive=true&#38;rm=false&#38;continue=http%3A%2F%2Fmail.google.com%2Fmail%2F%3Fui%3Dhtml%26zy%3Dl&#38;bsv=1eic6yu9oa4y3&#38;scc=1&#38;ltmpl=default&#38;ltmplcache=2">Gmail</a>. I know, I know. Your kids and grand kids are all over you to use Gmail instead of <a title="AOL" href="https://my.screenname.aol.com/_cqr/login/login.psp?sitedomain=sns.webmail.aol.com&#38;lang=en&#38;seamless=novl&#38;offerId=newmail-en-us-v2&#38;authLev=0&#38;siteState=ver%3A4&#124;rt%3ASTANDARD&#124;at%3ASNS&#124;ld%3Amail.aol.com&#124;uv%3AAOL&#124;lc%3Aen-us&#124;mt%3AAOL&#124;snt%3AScreenName&#124;sid%3Aa1313909-03e4-4cd5-9491-f087c71984c0&#38;locale=us">AOL</a>. I agree that AOL is inconsistent and not as compatible with many handheld devices, but Gmail's design is not particularly "user-friendly" (a misnomer  when referring to anything computer).  I would suggest <a title="Yahoo" href="http://www.yahoo.com/">Yahoo</a> over Gmail, but I understand that your family has more influence over your decisions that I do.
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When I&#8217;m asked what free web-based e-mail I recommend it is <strong>NOT </strong><a title="Gmail.com" href="https://www.google.com/accounts/ServiceLogin?service=mail&amp;passive=true&amp;rm=false&amp;continue=http%3A%2F%2Fmail.google.com%2Fmail%2F%3Fui%3Dhtml%26zy%3Dl&amp;bsv=1eic6yu9oa4y3&amp;scc=1&amp;ltmpl=default&amp;ltmplcache=2">Gmail</a>. I know, I know. Your kids and grand kids are all over you to use Gmail instead of <a title="AOL" href="https://my.screenname.aol.com/_cqr/login/login.psp?sitedomain=sns.webmail.aol.com&amp;lang=en&amp;seamless=novl&amp;offerId=newmail-en-us-v2&amp;authLev=0&amp;siteState=ver%3A4|rt%3ASTANDARD|at%3ASNS|ld%3Amail.aol.com|uv%3AAOL|lc%3Aen-us|mt%3AAOL|snt%3AScreenName|sid%3Aa1313909-03e4-4cd5-9491-f087c71984c0&amp;locale=us">AOL</a>. I agree that AOL is inconsistent and not as compatible with many handheld devices, but Gmail&#8217;s design is not particularly &#8220;user-friendly&#8221; (a misnomer  when referring to anything computer).  I would suggest <a title="Yahoo" href="http://www.yahoo.com/">Yahoo</a> over Gmail, but I understand that your family has more influence over your decisions that I do.</p>
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So, if you&#8217;re going to take the plunge and use Gmail, let&#8217;s make it as &#8220;friendly&#8221; as we can by customizing it to meet your needs.</p>
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My first criticism is that e-mails stack on top of one another:</p>
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<a href="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/google-stack1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-587" title="google stack" src="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/google-stack1.jpg" alt="" width="503" height="104" /></a></p>
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For a newbie what you see above can be conceptually confusing and, for those that have dexterity issues, this format is difficult to manipulate &#8211; it requires very good aim.</p>
<p>
I hear you daughter snapping back that one could click on <strong>Expand All</strong> in the right sidebar. The problem with this option is that Google then presents the oldest e-mail on top and the most recent must be scrolled down to &#8211; not an optimal choice for someone just learning to scroll or who has memory issues. Rather than debate the good, bad, and ugly of Gmail, let me offer you a way to reformat the Inbox. This stacking is referred to as &#8220;conversation view.&#8221;</p>
<p>
<strong>To turn conversation view off:</strong></p>
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1) Click on <strong>Settings</strong> (top right)</p>
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2) Scroll down until you see <strong>Conversation View:</strong></p>
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3) Click in the circle (aka radio dial) to the left of <strong>Conversation view off</strong></p>
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4) <strong>MOST IMPORTANT</strong> &#8211; Scroll all the way to the bottom and click on <strong>Save Changes</strong></p>
<p>
I am asked regularly &#8220;How can I change the font to be larger on all of my outgoing e-mails?&#8221; This is a courtesy to the reader that most older users are more apt to opt for. It is an elusive option with Gmail, but it does exist.</p>
<p>
<strong>To enable change font style:</strong></p>
<p>
1) Click <strong>Settings</strong> (top right)</p>
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2) Click the <strong>Labs</strong> tab (far right)</p>
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3) Scroll down to <strong>Default Text Styling</strong></p>
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4) Click in the circle to the left of <strong>Enable</strong></p>
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5) <strong>MOST IMPORTANT</strong> &#8211; Scroll all the way to the bottom and click on <strong>Save Changes</strong></p>
<p>
While you&#8217;re visiting Settings or the Lab tab, take a look around and see what else you might want to customize. Make a note of the original setting &#8211; in case you don&#8217;t like the change you&#8217;ve made, you can revert back to what it was.</p>
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For those teaching Gmail to an new user, be sure to really hit home that the arrow to the right of Reply <a href="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Gmail-reply1.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-578" title="Gmail reply" src="http://abbyandme.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Gmail-reply1.jpg" alt="" width="71" height="23" /></a> is where the most common actions will be hidden &#8211; Forward, Print, Reply All, etc. Why did Gmail choose to hide these features? Mine is not to wonder why. Mine is just to show you how.</p>
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You&#8217;re capable of learning anything &#8211; well-designed or not. Just keep in mind when you think the problem is you, it&#8217;s more likely a thoughtless design choice. Take a deep breath and rise above it!</p>
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		<title>&#8216;Tis the Season for Tech Support</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 13:55:06 +0000</pubDate>
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‘Tis the season to give thanks, presents, and ring in the New Year. We’re all grateful for the good health and happiness of our friends and family and the good health of our computer and printer. What? Your computer isn’t working? Oh dear. The elves are all busy – too busy to come to your rescue. You’re going to have to try to fix things yourself.<br />
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If you are attempting to visit a website and “Server Not Responding” appears or any other error message, the first thing to do is try to visit another website. That determines if that particular website is acting up or if it is a different problem. I usually try <a href="http://www.cnn.com">cnn.com</a> because it’s a lush website and if it opens up, you have no connectivity issues.<br />
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If you have no success opening <a href="http://www.cnn.com">cnn.com</a>, close the window and try connecting to the Internet with a different browser. If you have a PC, you will have <strong>Internet Explorer</strong> (the Blue E) already on your desktop. If you have a Mac, you’ll have <strong>Safari</strong> (the compass). They are both your browsers – allowing you to browse the Internet. At some point, before you run into trouble, download <strong>Mozilla Firefox</strong> (<a href="http://www.firefox.com">www.firefox.com</a>). It’s a browser that works well both on Macs and PCs. If Internet Explorer or Safari don’t open, try to open Firefox. If Firefox opens the problem was with your browser.<br />
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If you are still not able to connect, it could be your <strong>modem</strong>. The best thing to do at this stage is turn off the computer. Turn off your modem and unplug all of the plugs in the back of the modem. (Take note of where each one is plugged in before removing. You can mark each cord with masking tape to ensure they’ll be no mistaking what it plugs into.) Let it all sit for a full minute, then plug it all back again and turn the modem on. Wait another full minute for the modem to reset itself. Now turn on your computer and try to connect to the Internet again.<br />
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It’s a good idea to make a note of the lights on the modem when it is working well. That way, if you can’t connect to the Internet, you may be able to identify the problem quickly with just a glance at the lights. (“Eureka! What should be green is yellow or not lit at all.”)<br />
Below are two other common error messages not necessarily involving your Internet connection:<br />
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•	&#8220;You have performed an illegal operation.&#8221; Wrong. There is nothing illegal about what happened and 9 times out of 10 it was nothing you did. The software program you were in had a minor hiccup.<br />
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•	&#8220;A fatal error has occurred.&#8221; Should you call 911? Absolutely not! This message merely indicates that whatever went wrong (and you may never know what it was) has caused the program you were in to stop functioning properly.<br />
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Try the steps below to handle error messages:<br />
<P><br />
1.	Give the computer some time to recover. Go get a cup of coffee (or something stronger if the computer is really acting up!), make a phone call, or take a walk. Take as much time as you need to let off the steam that may have built up about the plastic box misbehaving. When you return, try to close the error message window and restart your computer.<br />
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2.	If your mouse or keyboard still doesn&#8217;t respond, <strong>soft boot</strong> (or force quit in Mac speak) the computer. This means to restart or shutdown the computer without pulling the plug.<br />
<P><br />
<strong>To soft boot a PC:</strong> Hold down the Ctrl (control), Alt (Alternate) and Del (Delete) keys on your keyboard. Follow the instructions on the Close Program window that will appear.<br />
<P><br />
<strong>To force quit a Mac:</strong> Hold down the Command, Option Alt and Esc (Escape) keys on your keyboard. Hit the Return key on your keyboard.<br />
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3.	If a soft boot doesn’t work, you’ll have to <strong>hard boot</strong> the computer. Depress the on/off button and start to count to 30. By the time you’ve reached about 10 the computer should have shut down. Let it sit for a bit. (Maybe refill the ice in your glass…) Turn it back on and see if the problem is resolved.<br />
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4.	Keep a diary of error messages including the date, time and what program you were in when the error took place. Write down the error message exactly as it appears. This may prove helpful to a technician if the problem becomes chronic.<br />
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Note: You may lose the changes made to a document or program when an error occurs.<br />
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If you must call tech support, have all pertinent information about your computer at the ready. You may need to provide the tech person with the specs on your system. It’s a good idea to have written down the make and model of your computer and the operating system. The make and model (i.e. Sony Vaio PCG-505FX, MacBook, etc.) is usually noted on the front of your computer case. When the computer is warming up the operating system (i.e. Windows XP, Vista, OSX, etc.) will be displayed. Alternatively, if you have a PC, you can find all this information by RIGHT clicking on the “My Computer” icon. Then LEFT click on the word “Properties”. Here you can see the make and model of the computer, the operating system and even the amount of RAM. If you have a Mac, you can click on the Apple in the top left corner, then click on “About This Mac”.<br />
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If you took advantage of the <strong>Test Drive Form</strong>, in <strong><em>Is This Thing On?</em></strong>, when you bought your computer (Chapter 7 p.56), all the information you need is already written on that form. Handy, isn’t it?<br />
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Ask if the tech support person is familiar with your system. I’m all for learning on the job, but not when it comes to tech support. With so many different computer systems being used and a lot of compatibility problems, it is essential that you start your search for answers with someone who is familiar with your system. If the technician is not familiar with your computer system, please feel empowered to ask for someone that is. Without hesitation I will request a <strong>tier two technician</strong> – tech talk for someone smarter or a supervisor.<br />
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If your computer is approaching a double digit birthday you might want to add <strong>new computer</strong> in your letter to Santa or on your birthday list. I don’t know if you’ve been naughty or nice, but there’s always time to turn over a new leaf!<br />
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		<title>Web links for Book Marketing Online</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 04:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Women&#8217;s National Book Association hosted a discussion about Book Marketing Online this evening. I was honored to be a member of the panel with a great group of bloggers, publishers, publicists, online marketers, and all around publishing gurus. As promised to the participants, I compiled a list of web links on the subject. Thought [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Women&#8217;s National Book Association hosted a discussion about <strong>Book Marketing Online</strong> this evening. I was honored to be a member of the panel with a great group of bloggers, publishers, publicists, online marketers, and all around publishing gurus. As promised to the participants, I compiled a list of web links on the subject. Thought you or someone you know might find the list helpful. So, here the it is&#8230;</p>
<p>I love this list for authors! <strong>&#8220;50 Things Under $50 To Promote Your Book&#8221;</strong>:<br />
<a href="http://amarketingexpert.com/ameblog/uncategorized/fifty-things-under-50-bucks-to-promote-your-book/comment-page-1/">http://amarketingexpert.com/ameblog/uncategorized/fifty-things-under-50-bucks-to-promote-your-book/comment-page-1/</a></p>
<p>Brace yourself for some straight talk&#8230;Sonia Simone&#8217;s <strong>&#8220;7 Harsh Realities of Social Media Marketing&#8221;</strong>:<br />
<a href="http://www.copyblogger.com/harsh-social-media-marketing/">http://www.copyblogger.com/harsh-social-media-marketing/</a></p>
<p><strong>Here are several links specific to Twitter&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>J.S. McDougall&#8217;s<strong> &#8220;10 Tweetable Twitter Tips for Book Publishers&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://www.jsmcdougall.com/2009/12/ten-tweetable-twitter-tips-for-book-publishers/">http://www.jsmcdougall.com/2009/12/ten-tweetable-twitter-tips-for-book-publishers/</a></p>
<p>Dan Blank, from Digital Book World,<strong> &#8220;How To Leverage Twitter When You Have Little Time&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://digitalbookworld.com/2010/how-to-leverage-twitter-when-you-have-little-time/">http://digitalbookworld.com/2010/how-to-leverage-twitter-when-you-have-little-time/</a></p>
<p><strong>Mashable</strong>, as mentioned on the panel. Read about all things twitter and more:<br /> <a href="http://mashable.com/category/twitter-lists/">http://mashable.com/category/twitter-lists/</a></p>
<p>Intended for college students, but helpful to all using Twitter <strong>&#8220;100 Twitter Tools To Help You Meet Your Goals&#8221;</strong>:<br /><a href="http://www.onlinebestcolleges.com/blog/2009/100-twitter-tools-to-help-you-achieve-all-your-goals/">http://www.onlinebestcolleges.com/blog/2009/100-twitter-tools-to-help-you-achieve-all-your-goals/</a></p>
<p>Recommended by Kelly Leonard, one of tonight&#8217;s panelists, <strong>&#8220;How To Quantify The Reach Of Your Tweet&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://tweetreach.com/">http://tweetreach.com/</a></p>
<p><strong>About blogging&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Michael Hyatt&#8217;s<strong> &#8220;Do You Make These 10 Mistakes When You Blog?&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://michaelhyatt.com/2009/11/do-you-make-these-10-mistakes-when-you-blog.html">http://michaelhyatt.com/2009/11/do-you-make-these-10-mistakes-when-you-blog.html</a></p>
<p>Jason Baer&#8217;s <strong>&#8220;How To Match 10 Key Success Metrics To Your Blogging Strategy&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://socialmediatoday.com/SMC/179256?utm_source=smt_newsletter&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=newsletter">http://socialmediatoday.com/SMC/179256?utm_source=smt_newsletter&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=newsletter</a></p>
<p>Sage advice about what not to so with your blog from Jane Friedman <strong>&#8220;5 Things That Make Me Stop Reading Websites and Blogs&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://writerunboxed.com/2009/12/18/5-things-that-make-me-stop-reading-websites-blogs/">http://writerunboxed.com/2009/12/18/5-things-that-make-me-stop-reading-websites-blogs/</a></p>
<p><strong>Miscellaneous&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Galley Cat&#8217;s <strong>&#8220;Podcasting Tips for Authors&#8221;</strong>:<br /> <a href="http://www.mediabistro.com/galleycat/web_tech/podcasting_tips_for_authors_153628.asp">http://www.mediabistro.com/galleycat/web_tech/podcasting_tips_for_authors_153628.asp</a></p>
<p>Planning your own publicity? This calendar is an amazing resource to make a plan:<br /> <a href="http://www.directcontactpr.com/files/files/Publicityplan2010.pdf">http://www.directcontactpr.com/files/files/Publicityplan2010.pdf</a></p>
<p><strong>Helpful sites mentioned at tonight&#8217;s WNBA event&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Yen Cheong&#8217;s blog on &#8220;news, trends, and tips for book publicists&#8221; is a great resource for anyone in the book business:<br /> <a href="http://yodiwan.wordpress.com/">http://yodiwan.wordpress.com/</a></p>
<p>Social Network for books. music, movies, and more on the web:<br /> <a href="http://getglue.com/">http://getglue.com/</a></p>
<p>MeetUp &#8220;helps groups of people with shared interests plan meetings and form offline clubs in local communities&#8221;:<br /> <a href="http://www.meetup.com/">http://www.meetup.com/</a></p>
<p>Book Movement &#8220;serves over 21,000 book clubs&#8221;:<br /><a href="http://bookmovement.com/"> http://bookmovement.com/</a></p>
<p>Good luck to all of you and your book projects!</p>
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		<title>10 Tips for Teaching Computers to Future Silver Surfers</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 05:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are unique obstacles to teaching technology to a generation that not only wasn&#8217;t born with a computer mouse in their hand, but clearly remember when telephones were rotary dial. As a &#8220;younger&#8221; baby boomer, the transition to computers came a lot easier for me than it did for my mother. But, if she is [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are unique obstacles to teaching technology to a generation that not only wasn&#8217;t born with a computer mouse in their hand, but clearly remember when telephones were rotary dial. As a &#8220;younger&#8221; baby boomer, the transition to computers came a lot easier for me than it did for my mother. But, if she is any example, anyone can learn to use a computer with gentle, patient, and creative guidance.</p>
<p>There are three motivating factors that inpsire most silver surfers to take on the challenge of the computer &#8211; the Internet, e-mail, and a desire to not be left behind. Keeping those three objectives in mind, here are my 10 tips on how to successfully bring the computer fearful onboard and, hopefully, enjoy the experience the computer and Internet have to offer:</p>
<p>1) <strong>Watch Your Language.</strong> You probably shouldn&#8217;t cuss at the computer or your student, but that&#8217;s not what I mean. Be aware of the words you choose. You&#8217;ll lose someone in the first 5 minutes if you speak computer jargon. They don&#8217;t need to know computer terms in order to use the computer, so avoid tech talk unless absolutely necessary.</p>
<p>2) <strong>What Turns Them On? </strong>Before sitting down in front of the computer ask your student what interests them. You want to be able to dazzle them with what the Internet has to offer specific to their needs and interests. What questions would they like answered? What are their hobbies? What is their family into that they would like to know more about?</p>
<p>3) <strong>Slow And Steady Wins The Race. </strong>Most seniors are not in a rush &#8211; you shouldn&#8217;t  be either. Assume that you are always going too fast. Take your cues not from the agenda you&#8217;ve set for the lesson, but instead the look in the eyes of your student. Eyebrows raised in surprise are good. A furrowed brow and a glazed look are bad. When you see the latter, you need to back up and figure out where you lost your student and start again from there.</p>
<p>4) <strong>Shake It Up.</strong> Before you even turn on the computer have your student put both hands on the monitor and shake it a little. Take the mouse in your hand and swing it by its tail. It reassures the fearful to know that the computer is just a big plastic box and nothing more. A little levity, with the intimidated, goes a long way.</p>
<p>5) <strong>Play Wingman. </strong>Your student should start in the driver&#8217;s seat from the get go. They do all the hands-on controlling of the experience starting with turning the computer on. Think basic, basic, basic and assume they don&#8217;t know anything, but can learn everything.</p>
<p>6) <strong>Conquer The Mouse. </strong>Any activity on the computer can be broken down into step-by-step instructions to be practiced until the steps become habitual. But, until the mouse is conquered, a newbie can&#8217;t practice the steps. Your first teaching session may only be about hand position, single-clicking, double-clicking, and clicking and dragging. The best way to practice all of these skills is by playing Solitaire. (I kid you not.) Be patient, reassuring, and sing their praises when they get it right.</p>
<p>7) <strong>Take A Break. </strong>There&#8217;s a limit to how much anyone can absorb. No matter how far you&#8217;ve gotten, stop after 45 minutes. Use a 15 minute break to talk about the importance of good posture, what websites you find fun, or chat about the weather. You&#8217;ll know you can return to the lesson when you see your student relax.</p>
<p> <img src='http://abbyandme.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' /> <strong>A 3-Step Method. </strong>Repetition helps us remember. Do everything three times. The first time they do it is hands on. The second time they do it is to take notes. The third time they do it is to follow their notes to be sure the notes are clear without your guiding them. Example: To access the Internet and visit a website: With their hand on the mouse you instruct them to 1) double-click on the icon to access the Internet. Next have them 2) single-click in the website address box to highlight and 3) type in a website address. Lastly they should 4) depress and release the Enter/Return key. Four simple steps. Do it, write it, and do it again.</p>
<p>9) <strong>It&#8217;s Not Their Fault. </strong>When the time comes, and it will, that a website is hard to navigate, place blame where it belongs. Shame on web designers and computer manufacturers. This could all be much easier if those who designed the computer and websites took into consideration user issues. Relieve your student from feeling inadequate by pointing out the flaws in design and usability.</p>
<p>10) <strong>Give Homework. </strong>Inspire your student to get on the computer for just 15 minutes a day to practice what you&#8217;ve worked on together. It is through short, daily visits to the computer that they will be able to conquer the beast.</p>
<p>There are few things in life as satisfying as when you help someone get over their fear &#8211; unless you&#8217;re the one getting over your fear. That is even more satisfying.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 00:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So nice to have you come for a visit. I hope you find abbyandme an easy site to navigate and a launching pad for your computer adventure. To give you some background on me: I&#8217;ve never studied computers, nor read a book on them. Some eighteen years ago I worked at a law firm in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So nice to have you come for a visit. I hope you find abbyandme an easy site to navigate and a launching pad for your computer adventure. To give you some background on me: I&#8217;ve never studied computers, nor read a book on them. Some eighteen years ago I worked at a law firm in the Personnel Department here in Manhattan, and was taught a bit of data entry as part of my job. From there I bought my first laptop and began to play with it. Believe me, there were many, many times I was baffled with what the blasted computer did or found an amazing feature that I couldn&#8217;t find again.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s where my first bit of advice to you comes in . . . Have a pad of paper and a pen beside your computer at all times. As you have a revelation about how to do something, <strong>write it down then and there</strong>. It is so easy to forget. Also, if something seems amiss, make a note of what you were doing when the computer misbehaved. Does it always happen when you use a particular program, on the Internet, e-mailing, or at a certain time of day? All of that information becomes very helpful in the diagnosis of a problem.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s my second bit of advice . . . <strong>Play with your computer</strong>. The only way I really became comfortable with the computer was to spend time with it. Make a point of using it every day, even if for only ten minutes of Solitaire or to check the weather. Every time you touch the computer you get closer to being master of the beast.</p>
<p>For over a decade I&#8217;ve taught computers to those over 50. So, if the computer intimidates you, I completely understand. If there are times you feel you want to throw in the towel and never turn on a computer again, I&#8217;ve seen it before. If the Internet seems like a scary place to visit, I won&#8217;t disagree. But, I won&#8217;t allow you to think that any of that is about your deficiencies or that you are somehow incapable of using the computer. Computers were designed by geeks who didn&#8217;t think about what is best for the user (that is you and me). The fault is not yours, but their&#8217;s. You and I, together, will make up for their blunders and ultimately enjoy what the computer and the Internet have to offer.</p>
<p>There is no way that you can&#8217;t learn the computer. With all due respect and love to my mother, if my mother can conquer the computer anyone can. Stick with me and we&#8217;ll get you there safe and sound.</p>
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